This weekend is my fertile period (FP), but my job seems to be killing me. I have so many meetings to attend, and they're located in another building. (The current company I work for has a very large area.) I always use a golf cart to get everywhere, and it makes me so tired.

When my FP comes, my workload seems to get even heavier and takes up most of my attention. That's no problem at all. I love working with high mobility and movement. It makes me busy, and being busy makes me cool :D

But I really want a baby (or babies) :D so much. I think now is the perfect time to get pregnant. My husband and I have been through all kinds of situations, both sad and happy. Having a baby will be the biggest gift from God for our marriage. We want it so, so badly. Sometimes I can't stand how much I want it. I've even cried, but I know that, at the right time, he or she will come. I feel that it will happen soon. InsyaAllah, Alhamdulillah. Amin, Ya Allah.

Oh ya, I want to tell you a story that will make every mother, or even every daughter, say: naudzubillahimindzalik.

This woman, let's call her Mrs. Q. I knew her once upon a time, in this Universe. (I won't tell you the details because that's not good. I don't want to commit Ghibah/gossiping. I just want everyone to learn from this.)

Who says that having a daughter is better than having a son? The important thing is how deeply a person holds their Iman in their heart. Iman will guide you in how to respect your mother and your friends, and how to respond to every problem you face in this life.

This woman, this pregnant woman, who is clever, rich, and seems gorgeous, treats her mother very badly.

There is no good conversation between them. You cannot imagine a mother and daughter talking to each other like you see on TV; with love and respect.

This woman almost yells at her mother whenever they have something to say. I have even seen this woman treat her mother like a servant. Naudzubillahimindzalik.

She has everything, but she pushes herself too much and too hard. She is even married to a man who doesn't love her. In her gloomy life, she seems to be looking for a solution through magic. Naudzubillahimindzalik.

Now, she is pregnant and still treats her mother so badly.

I bet she is never happy with her condition now.

God and Mom are the best places to share everything. Just listen to what God and your Mom advise you to do. It will help you all the way and help you overcome even the biggest mountains of problems.

Learn from Mrs. Q and make sure that your sister, your best friend, or even you yourself live your life in the right way.

I hope Allah SWT saves us in this life and in the Akhirat.

Amin Ya Rabbal 'Alamin.